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How Malaysians Use Race to Explain Everything Except Their Own Behaviour

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How Malaysians Use Race to Explain Everything Except Their Own Behaviour Malaysia is a country deeply shaped by race. Politics, education, business, language, food, and even daily conversation often revolve around racial identity. It is discussed so frequently that many Malaysians no longer notice how naturally race enters almost every topic. A traffic incident becomes racial. A business dispute becomes racial. Academic success, job opportunities, crime, customer service, social attitudes—everything somehow circles back to race. Yet in the middle of all this discussion, one uncomfortable pattern remains largely ignored: many Malaysians use race to explain problems while refusing to examine their own behaviour. This is not to deny that racial issues exist. Malaysia’s history, policies, and political system have long been influenced by ethnic divisions and inequalities. These realities are genuine and cannot simply be dismissed. However, the problem begins when race become...

The Great Malaysian Double Parking Debate: Who Is Really Wrong?

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Woman Damaged a Double Parked Car Blocking Her There is a very special type of genius in Malaysia. Not the kind that invents things, not the kind that builds companies, not the kind that writes books. No, I’m talking about a different category of genius. The Double Parking Genius . This person believes that hazard lights are a magical legal document that transforms illegal parking into a temporary, morally acceptable life decision. Put hazard lights, suddenly rules don’t apply. Suddenly the road belongs to your father. Suddenly everyone else must adjust their life because you want to buy bubble tea for “five minutes.” Five minutes in Malaysia is a very flexible unit of time. Five minutes can mean: – 5 minutes – 20 minutes – 45 minutes – Until the shop close So recently there was a case: a woman couldn’t exit because someone double parked and blocked her car. She got angry, damaged the blocking car, and then — plot twist — she was the one who had to apologize . And ...

Road Rage in Malaysia: Getting Worse or Just More Visible?

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Road Rage in Malaysia: Getting Worse or Just More Visible? “Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” — Buddha Let’s be honest about one thing: Malaysians are very polite people — until we sit behind the steering wheel. Then suddenly, we transform from “boss, sorry boss, after you boss” into Formula 1 drivers with anger management issues. So the question is: Is road rage in Malaysia getting worse, or is it just more visible now because everyone has a dashcam and a smartphone? Short answer? Both. And also because many people drive like their brain is on airplane mode. You’ve seen it. I’ve seen it. Everyone has seen it. The guy who cuts three lanes without signal like he’s Moses parting the Red Sea. The driver who tailgates you so close you can read his IC number. The abang who drives 60 km/h in the fast lane like he bought the highway. The Myvi that appears in your rearview mirror out of nowhere like a boss-level video game...